2.01.2012

Wyatt Hunter Pape

I honestly don't even know where to start. I have missed blogging about Christmas, New Years and now the first month of our new addition to our family. Sooo sorry!!! So I will skip Christmas for now. Wyatt Hunter Pape was born on January 3, 2012, weighing 8lbs 12oz and 21.25 inches long. I remember telling my doctor if he looked small when they pulled him out to start looking for another one! I just knew he was going to be big and as soon as they pulled him out, I felt like I could finally breathe again.....
Unfortunately, after we got into recovery they had to send down a NICU team to check on his breathing because it appeared as though he had swallowed some fluid which got into his lungs which is common with c-section babies. No one was able to hold him nor was I able to feed him while they were assessing him. They first told us that there was a period of time, 7 hours, that they wanted to observe him to make sure that the fluid dried up on its own. So seven hours passed.....and we got news that he needed to spend the night in the NICU, because the fluid wasn't drying up and he was needing oxygen to help with breathing. Luckily, the epidural was keeping me calm from the c section so I didn't freak out and just went with it. That night, my nurse had me get up for the first time which was good because Waylen was allowed to wheel me down to the NICU to see my sweet baby. Even though I couldn't hold him I loved watching him and studying his face. He was perfect and tomorrow he would be back with us.....so I thought.
The next two days are starting to be a big blur, but basically over the next 48 hours they ran lots of bloodwork and the counts were not in our favor. We were left with being told our little guy would have to stay in the NICU for the next 7 days. I couldn't believe it. Not only would he not be in our room during our stay....he wouldn't be able to go home with us. I was a mess inside. Waylen and I decided it was better to be safe than sorry... we just wanted our son to get better and we would do whatever it takes. So over the next 7 days they would administer antibiotics through an IV twice a day. The IVs dont stay in very well with newborn veins so he had one his hand, one in his head (that was the worst) and one in his foot. Waylen and I would go down every three hours while we were in the hospital to feed and hold him. Once we checked out of the hospital we went straight to a hotel where we stayed until he got out. It made it so much easier to be so close for feedings. I am happy to report after the 7th day we did get to bring him home and we have been in love ever since. It wasn't the easiest journey and I am leaving a lot of the drama out...believe me...I had lots of meltdowns and lots of tears!!!
All of our parents were so great throughout it all, checking on us and taking care of Harlow. My dad and Lori would bring her up to the hospital every night to see us. It made it soo easy knowing that she was being spoiled while we were away! She always knew baby Wyatt was at the hospital, but she never got to see him until the day we brought him home....and that was so special. Hopefully I can find a way to upload the video of her meeting him for the first time.
The past month has been a whirlwind. Two kids is soooo much work!!! hahhaha.... Luckily, Harlow and Wyatt have both been great and we can't wait to watch them grow up together.






11.13.2011

Happy Birthday Harlow and Maddie!!

Since I may have gone "over the top" for Harlow's 1st birthday and I am 32 weeks pregnant (and feeling every second of it) we decided to go "low key" this year. So Kasey and I decided to do the girls birthday party together and it worked out perfectly. We had it at Love to Swim and Tumble here in Schertz. They provided instructors for the kids, the parents got to hang out...and the best part was NO CLEAN UP!!! Yippeee!!! We had pizza and fruit, a million cakes (Harlow and Maddie had their own personal cakes to blow candles out with, Harlow had a separate small cake with no icing, and then we had the big cake for everyone else) and a candy bar for the kids to fill up their treat bags before they left. Everyone seemed to have a blast and Harlow loved the gymnastics area! Guess we will be signing up for classes soon!!! Happy Birthday Harlow and Maddie!!!!











10.13.2011

Happy Birthday!!!

Today, two years ago, Waylen and I received the most special gift from God. We couldn't have been blessed more and not a day has been the same since. Harlow Grace, Happy Second Birthday!!!! LOVE, Mommy and Daddy!

And, YES MY FRIENDS........SHE ATE HER CUPCAKE....AS LONG AS THERE WASN'T ANY ICING!! DEFINITELY MY DAUGHTER!




9.07.2011

Bye Mom, See you soon!

Today, was Harlow's first day of Kids Day Out. We decided to sign her up at a really great place on my way to work to go twice a week and burn some energy and hopefully learn a thing or two. Last night, I was preparing all her stuff, labeling everything, overpacking extra snacks and food (just in case she was randomly starving, I guess) and I caught my self getting nervous. EEEKKKKK....How was this really happening?....her whole life flashed before me....it's going by WAY too fast. I am trying to soak it all up.
So this morning we got up and ready to go. At first she couldn't wait to put on her backpack....but that did not last long. It was too heavy and she wanted it off NOW!!! After telling daddy bye we went outside and took a couple of pics...which started out all cute.....and then she was over it! She made her usual "I'm MAD" face, sat down, and would not look at me!!!! What a princess. Once we got to school, I realized I was in for a treat carrying all the "first day of school" stuff for her. Somehow I managed, and I remember as we were getting closer to the door Harlow stopped and held out her hand for me to hold as we walked through the door.....my sweet big girl (that was the only time I teared up....I swear!). Once, we got into the class....she took off running, looking at all the toys and new things to play with. Of course, the teachers loved her and thought she was just the cutest!!! After unloading all her stuff and grabbing a couple more pics, I bent down and she gave me a kiss and said "Bye Mom! See ya soon!"......

Yup, that's it! No whining, no clinging to my leg, nothing! As much relief as I felt leaving the school without any tears or tantrums....I felt a little rumble in my tummy letting me know.....there is always #2!!! HAHAHAHAHA.......

Harlow had a great day today. She loved showing me all the toys and everything she did that day. She even took a good nap! So day one is complete and turned out better than I could have expected!